heard this at the bar last night for the first time in forever and it reminded me how obsessed I was (and still am) with the song and music video. a true masterpiece!
The people who gang up on you end up turning on each other
The people who gossip about you gossip about each other
isn’t that the truth!!!!!!
Peace be upon the daughter who helped her parents grow up. Accepted their cold shoulder, excused their anger, pardoned their mistakes, taught them how to be human. Peace be upon the sister who paid the price of rebellion. Screaming to her fullest, shaking like a leaf but standing tall, never letting the dictatorship go without a fight, paving the path for her siblings to breathe easier. Peace be upon the first child of an immigrant father. Aching to find their own purpose in life, firm in their own beliefs, contradicting generations and generations of cultural values. Peace be upon the girl who shouldered her mother’s trauma. Swindled it into her own, morphed herself into an image of the womb she once resided in, immersed herself into troubles that weren’t even hers, covered up scars that she couldn’t even recognize. Peace be upon the woman who forgot who she was. So determined to be the savior of everyone, to fix her family, to nurture and love everyone around her. So deeply lost that she forgot she’s just as worthy of love. Peace be upon you.
Marguerite Duras, from The Easy Life
Text ID: I was no one, I had neither name nor face. Moving through August, I was: nothing.
Angela Lane — Supralateral Arcs (oil on birch plywood, 2022)









